I am Afghan in culture, but a Canadian citizen. Growing up, I was shaped by a unique blend of both worlds, crafting an identity that feels like a bridge between the two. This duality made me feel like I was always caught in the middle, too Canadian for my Afghan cousins, yet too Afghan for my Canadian peers. It felt as though I was constantly shifting, trying to find a balance that was acceptable to both sides, yet never quite enough for either. Recently, my sister got engaged, and the whirlwind of traditional and cultural preparations brought these feelings to the forefront. The intricate…