While reading the chapter 81 today, it made me think of a comparison. I feel like this chapter is also about being real to who you are. Don’t hide behind a mask. When you are truly who you are (witch relates with not refining your words), people seem to like you more. When you try too hard, you end up being someone your not. I think these people who put on a mask to try to be perfect are seen as the “not good”. So those who are genuine are seen as the ”good”.