The meaning of this chapter is to be authentic. You don’t have to try and please other. By saying what you think should be said, you are being truthful and people will believe you. It’s not about pleasing others by being to perfect. For someone to change, they need to receive real feedback. Those who keep themselves grounded and truthful won’t get into disputation. This is like the leaders using daodejing thoughts. They keep the information private when it’s not necessary to say, that way they don’t engage in disputation. The leaders are real and they don’t try to put a perfect mage of…