As of lately I have been trying to gather musicians to work with and someone who stood out to me was a girl my age who is a singer trying to form a punk rock band with four other people. It started out with me joining as a drummer. What was left to complete her band was searching for a lead guitarist. I was helping her find someone and thought I found the right fit for our band. The next day before they auditioned for us, this person decided she no longer wanted to take a chance in our band because she found the singer’s optimism to be too much and unrealistic. The singer began blaming…