The short story “Tin Man” by Judy Budnitz explores the effects family pressures can have on a person. While in the hospital awaiting an update on his mother, Arnie is repeatedly shamed by his aunts, especially after he is hesitant about donating his heart to his mother. His aunt Fran says “I can’t believe he’s thinking of himself at a time like this” (Budnitz). This quote is an example used by the author to demonstrate the manipulation used by Arnie’s family. His aunt is shaming him for being concerned about his own health, and what would happen to him after giving away his heart. By shaming…