According to the the Dalai Lama, the self and the interests of the self are closely linked to the selves of others and the interests' of others. Thus, it is not coincidental that when the interest of another is in opposition to yours, there are is concept of winners and losers. This is due to the fact that his interest is in conflict with yours thus making it so it is almost impossible for a complete equality as it represents one scenario within an infinity of scenarios. Thus making almost every situation slightly more advantageous to one as a bare minimum. Thus, even if both feel that they…