The Damaging Effects of Desperation for Love on Self-Respect in “This Is How You Fail to Ghost Him”

In the story “This Is How You Fail to Ghost Him,” the author showcases the negative impacts that desperation for external love can have on one’s self-respect through the use of second-person point of view & specific word choices. During the date with the “Playmobil boy” at the pizza place, we learn about the protagonist’s internal thoughts after responding to the boy’s comment about pizza: “Nod as he says, I just really really love pizza, because that is the required response” (McCurdy). The use of the word “required” indicates that the main character didn’t genuinely want to give that…