Question: By Chapter 12, “Fish Eyes,” we are introduced to Shawn’s abuse of Tara and the other women in his life, which recurs throughout the book. When Tara starts crying over one of these early incidents, she writes that she is crying from the pain, not from Shawn hurting her, and that she sees herself as “unbreakable.” She also writes that his physical and emotional abuse not affecting her “was its effect.” (111). Why is this insight important?