I don’t think Tara must lose one life to gain another. In my opinion, we all live different challenges where it brings us somewhere else in life. It might be very difficult to go through at first, but at the end of the day, it`s going to make you who you are. Tara is going to have become a stronger person which will help her succeed in life. She might feel like she wants to abandon everything or feel she is not good enough, but at the end of her journey, she will not regret anything that came into her life.